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Tuesday, 23 March 2021

Why go to Confession? - Father John Flader - CTS Living the Sacraments Series

Why go to Confession?
CTS Devotions
Father John Flader
Catholic Truth Society
ISBN 
9781860826269
eISBN 9781784694982
ASIN B076HSSL8V
CTS Booklet D716


Over the last several years, I have read almost 200 volumes from the CTS. I have read books from many series. And many authors. I have read several books that are part of the CTS Devotions and Prayer Series. I have read many in the CTS Biographies and also Saints of the Isles Series, and the Great Saints Series. This was the second by Father John Flader that I have read. A few years ago, I stumbled across the books and booklets from the Catholic Truth Society quite by accident. I was researching an author I had run across, and was trying to track down all of her works. Soon I had a long lost of books from the CTS on my Wishlist, and it seems that for everyone I read I end up with 1 or 2 more on my wish list. The description of this booklet is:

“The purpose of this booklet is to help those who make use of the sacrament to appreciate it more, and to encourage those who do not, to reconsider its many benefits. Describing the sacrament as 'one of the greatest treasures of the Catholic Church', this booklet considers both the human and spiritual perspectives of Confession. It includes notes on examination of conscience and a helpful Rite to Confession itself.”

The chapters in the book are:

A gift from Christ
Why did Christ institute a sacrament for the forgiveness of sins?
The dedication of priests
The benefits of Confession
The frequency of Confession
Helping others to go to Confession
Recourse to Mary, refuge of sinners
Examination of Conscience
The Rite of Confession

The book was first published by the Catholic Adult Education Centre, Sydney, Australia in 2008. That same year the CTS edition released, and the eBook was released in 2017. I read this booklet in a single sitting; I could hardly put it down. And I know it is a book I will return to and read again and again. The first time I read this book I highlighted 21 passages. A sampling of the passages I highlighted are:

“This situation is most unfortunate, because, in my opinion, the Sacrament of Reconciliation is one of the greatest treasures of the Catholic Church.”

“The answer must surely be that Our Lord instituted a sacrament for the forgiveness of sins because he knew human nature and he knew we needed it.”

“Cardinal Silvio Oddi, the then Prefect of the Sacred Congregation for the Clergy, said in Philadelphia in 1982: “It would be consoling to be able to maintain that there are now more Communions and fewer confessions because fewer sins are being committed. The headlines of the daily papers, however, do not permit us to be satisfied with that explanation. What has happened, of course, is that the people’s sense of sin has been eroded systematically.””

“Pope Pius XII summed it up graphically in a radio message in 1946: “The sin of the century is the loss of the sense of sin.””

“In a pastoral letter for Advent 1998, Archbishop George Pell, at that time Archbishop of Melbourne, elaborated on this aspect of the sacrament: “It would be ironic in an age where we are encouraged to verbalise our problems, and speak about our concerns, when so many more people are helped by competent counsellors, psychologists and psychiatrists, that the personal exchanges necessary in individual confession to a priest should be falling into disuse. Many people are helped wonderfully in the First Rite of Penance, because the combination of personal confession, sincere repentance, absolution, advice and penance are the best means to deal with guilt.” Indeed, it has often been said that many people would not need to have recourse to a counsellor or psychologist if they made more regular use of the Sacrament of Penance.”

“Commenting on the difference between human tribunals and the tribunal of God, a 20th century champion of the Sacrament of Penance, St Josemaria Escriva, writes in his popular book The Way, “What depths of mercy there are in God’s justice! For, in the judgments of men, he who confesses his fault is punished; and in the judgment of God, he is pardoned.” (TW 309) This sacrament is truly, in the words of St Josemaria, “a miracle of God’s love”.”

“Also, in confession we grow in sincerity or truthfulness. In confessing our sins we cannot beat around the bush – we have to be clear. To acknowledge to ourselves and then to tell the priest in clear terms what we have done, is an exercise of and a means of growth in sincerity.”

“And finally, as the fruit of all we have mentioned, confession invariably gives great joy and peace of soul, through the knowledge that we are forgiven and that the burden that was weighing on us has been lifted.”

One of the most important is:

“If confession offers so many benefits, and if Christ gave this sacrament to the Church as a gift, it is only natural that we should want to take advantage of it often. We need it and it will give us the vitality, the self-knowledge, the humility, the sincerity, the grace, etc., that we need to be truly effective leaven, salt and light in society.”

I hope those few passages will pique your interest and challenge you to pick up the book and give it a heartfelt read. This is one of the best booklets I have read from the Catholic Truth Society, and I have read many. It is an amazing read. I highly recommend it.

Note: This book is part of a series of reviews: 2021 Catholic Reading Plan! For other reviews of books from the Catholic Truth Society click here.


For reviews of other books in the CTS Living the Sacraments series click here.

Books by Father John Flader:
A Tour Of The Catechism - The Creed

Question Time Series: 
150 Questions and Answers on the Catholic Faith
150 Questions and Answers on the Catholic Faith Volume 2
150 Questions and Answers on the Catholic Faith Volume 3
150 Questions and Answers on the Catholic Faith Volume 4
150 Questions and Answers on the Catholic Faith Volume 5









Monday, 3 June 2019

7 Words on Marriage - Father Ivano Millico - CTS Living the Sacraments Series

7 Words on Marriage
Living the Sacraments Series
Father Ivano Millico
Catholic Truth Society
ISBN 9781784695583
eISBN 9781784695910
ASIN B07B6M82RZ
CTS Booklet PA49



Over the last year and a half, I have read 75 books and booklets from the Catholic Truth Society. There are some incredible reads, and many great books and series. This is the first book in the Living the Sacraments Series that I have read, and also the first by Father Ivano Millico, it will not be the last for either. The description of this book is:

“Here are seven life-giving words to shed light on your marriage, in whatever state it may be. Drawing from the marriage promises, married couples in Scripture, and from the inspirational and practical insights of Pope Francis and Pope John Paul II, we discover that the Loving God is a constant presence binding the couple together. Our job is to discover it. Every marriage is different yet the same: in its joys and sorrows, peaks and troughs, successes and darkest failures. These words - on accepting the other person, seeing God's providence in our spouse, learning forgiveness, making love so as to strengthen Love, making space for God's fidelity, overcoming fears in true Love, and preparing for our journey as a family - are our heritage; they belong to married couples and those preparing for marriage. These words open up new possibilities and affirm: we can still have faith in marriage, the most beautiful thing God created - introducing the couple to the author of Love and to each other in an utterly unique way.”

And it does an amazing job of that. The sections in this volume are:

Introduction
1. I take Thee

 “Never without the Other”
 The DNA of marriage
 Egolatry
 Mysticism of the encounter
2. She has been given to you from Heaven
 “Accompaniment, Discernment and Providence”
 Accompaniment
 Discernment
 Providence
3. Argue as much as you want…but forgive
 “Forgive me – the vocation and the mission of the Christian family”
 Three essential words!
 Who pays the divorce fees?
 The capacity to forgive
 Prayers of forgiveness
4. What God has united, let no man put asunder
 “The bridal chamber”
 The prayer of Tobias and Sarah
 Up!
 Liturgy of healing
 Deliverance
 Profession of faith
 Holy Spirit
5. Receive this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity
 “The Wedding Rings”
 To prepare young people for marriage, it is necessary to teach them love
 Anna and Stefan
6. Love
 “Are you afraid of love?”
“Yes, I am afraid.”
 The whole secret of love
 Cana: meeting the Bridegroom
 Anchor your love to Love
7. From Shunem to Emmaus
 “The domestic Church”
 Shunem: the domestic Church
 Emmaus: catechumenate and family in mission
Prayer of Consecration to the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus

In the introduction Father Ivan states:

“What follows are ‘seven words’ on marriage, your marriage, in seven chapters. They are mainly words pronounced on your wedding day, taken from the Rite of Marriage; words found on the lips of married couples in the Bible; words of poetry and drama; words of advice from priests, Popes and even Saints!

These words are yours – they belong to your marriage, they are your heritage. They are meant for couples engaged to be married as well as for married couples; full of joy or going through difficulties and serious problems; broken couples whose marriage has failed them and couples too afraid or disenchanted to marry. These words are for you, they come from the Church who loves you and announces to you that marriage is the most beautiful thing God has created.”


Our wedding is a day, but our marriages are to be a lifetime of working together and working out our salvation. I once read that are marriages are not just to make us happy, but to make us holy. By working through the seven words examined in the booklet we see a glimpse of how we can strive to achieve that holiness and encourage it in our spouse. In the first chapter Father says:

“At the centre of every marriage are these words: “I take Thee”. What do they mean? In the Latin Rite of Marriage, the expression used for ‘I take’ is ‘accipio’. The Latin verb ‘accipere’ means much more than ‘to take’, it means: ‘to receive’, ‘to welcome’. When a man and a woman get married, one does not ‘take’ the other, but ‘receives’ another. The ‘DNA’ of marriage is a DNA of welcoming, openness and communion.”

And the same chapter ends with:

“The words “I take Thee” pronounced in marriage echo a very ancient Christian prayer pronounced in a low voice by the priest before receiving Holy Communion:8 I take you…I receive you…I welcome you…may I never be parted from you…”

I look at the state of many marriages today, and many broken homes. I wonder how different things would be if more people really understood the sacramental nature of the marriage and lived it out. This is a powerful little book to encourage those in marriages, to challenge them. It would also be great for those preparing for marriage.

The book ends with a Prayer of Consecration to the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, It is an amazing prayer dedicating your marriage to God. The book is an excellent read, but it is worth more than the price even if you just start praying this prayer regularly.

It is another excellent read from The Catholic Truth Society!

Note: This book is part of a series of reviews: 2019 Catholic Reading Plan! For other reviews of books from the Catholic Truth Society click here.

Books by Fr Ivano Millico:
The Door of Mercy
The Meaning of Lent
7 Words on Marriage
Seeing the Pandemic with Eyes of Faith

Books in the Living the Sacraments Series:

Confirmed - Catholic Truth Society
Food for the Journey - Catholic Truth Society
Meet Christ in the Eucharist - Fr Stephen Wang
Spiritual First Aid - Fr Jim McManus CssR
A Question of Death & Life - r Neil McNicholas
Cherishing Your Wedding - Kerry Urdzik
7 Words on Marriage - Fr Ivano Millico
Love's True Meaning - Fr Anthony Doe
Beloved - Catholic Truth Society
Preparing for your Child's Baptism - Sr Hyacinthe Defos du Rau OP